No. Just. No.

"HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute" (hondoyota) 12/10/2014 at 14:00 • Filed to: dead horse has been beaten into a fine paste

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No. None of this is okay. It’s 11PM. In a Honda parking lot. Resurfacing brake rotors. A critical safety component. Without the correct tools. Because you don’t know what’s wrong with the brakes. And you can’t or haven’t performed the proper diagnosis.

This isn’t healthy. This isn’t safe.

It isn’t safe for me. It isn’t safe for others on the road.

This shit has to be put to a stop before somebody gets hurt or killed. This has to be the last “get a dangerous piece of shit, perform poor quality amateur repairs in a panicked rush for clicks, brag about half-assing things but getting it to ‘drive,’ and take it around Florida” trip ever .

This whole fucking minivan, people have not been listening to me. I have said from day one, it is unsafe. I am unquestionably qualified to say: “this is not safe.” Every other mechanic has looked at it and said “this is not safe.” One mechanic basically lied and said “well, it’s good enough.”

And I’m just done. I am done with it. I am done with not being listened to and not being respected, and now wondering if I am going to wake up tomorrow to find out a young man was killed in a traffic accident in Florida. My mom should have put a stop to this shit months ago. The Honda dealer should have put a stop to this months ago. Instead, they just sat around and said “oh no, it’ll be fine.” Only at the last second finally accepting the fact that it isn’t fine, my dad is not qualified, the car is completely unsafe , killing someone isn’t worth the clicks , and maybe they should force me to spend money he clearly has on getting it looked at by a proper mechanic. A mechanic that clearly lied or deliberately overlooked severe issues.

Nick Has an Exocet > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 13:17

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You clearly have a problem with someone else on this site, but I don't think this was the appropriate way to deal with it.

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > Nick Has an Exocet 04/20/2019 at 13:17

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r/woosh

Spamfeller Loves Nazi Clicks > Nick Has an Exocet 04/20/2019 at 13:27

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The moderation team has been contacted. Repeatedly. If you think they’ll respond to you without insulting you, feel free to chime in. They clearly don’t care.

Spanfeller is a twat > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 13:32

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Stop stealing titles 

facw > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 13:34

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Obviously this is a joke, but if not over the line, it seems perilously close to not being excellent to each other .

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > Nick Has an Exocet 04/20/2019 at 13:42

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Oh I have no problem with him, I just found it funny how it could fit with the whole Odyssey charade I've been through with our Odyssey 

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > Spanfeller is a twat 04/20/2019 at 13:42

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No u

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > facw 04/20/2019 at 13:45

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I literally copypasta'd it and switched out words to make it relevant to my current Odyssey problem and I found the excessive complaining and frustration funny and used it to parody on my living hell of the minivans endless repairs and problems

facw > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 13:51

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It comes across as mocking a fellow oppo (and frankly more meanly than the previous posts). If you didn’t intend that, I’ll take you at your word, but that’s how I read it, and it appears I’m not the only one.

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > facw 04/20/2019 at 13:54

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How is it more mean? It's literally word for word minus a few, then the tag is from Zoidbergs post from a conversation with WilliamsSW, and then the picture is actually supposed to be making fun of myself about the Odyssey.

facw > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 13:55

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I’d say because it’s word for word instead of just making a silly post with the title.

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > facw 04/20/2019 at 13:57

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Uh, the most recent one before mine copypasta'd part of it too and I don't see a problem with it, especially when it sort of applies to my own problems

E90M3 > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 14:12

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Alright, I think it’s time we talk about perception; that’s what you seem to be missing here. While you might have meant this as a parody post, not everyone is perceiving it that way. This also goes back to the whole thing with people saying you’re stalking them, regardless of what was going on there, they perceived what you were doing differently than you. Anytime someone says something you double down instead of possibly viewing it from their perspective and seeing what they see.

InFierority Complex > E90M3 04/20/2019 at 14:18

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E90M3 > InFierority Complex 04/20/2019 at 14:19

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For a second, I thought that was directed at me, but that is spot on. 

InFierority Complex > E90M3 04/20/2019 at 14:22

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I think the nicer quote is

“When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.”

but I can’t find any clips of that. Apologies for any confusion.

E90M3 > InFierority Complex 04/20/2019 at 14:24

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When I first clicked on the video, I thought it was going to be saying I was an asshole, then I realized that it applied to what I was saying. 

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > E90M3 04/20/2019 at 14:27

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Counterpoint: they see things in their own perspective, jump to conclusions and start attacking me. Their perspective is wrong because I know what I am trying to do and they just get it all wrong and come at me so that's why I double down and explain myself to clear shit up but instead people wanna stick to their incorrect perspective instead of hearing me out and understanding WHAT'S REALLY HAPPENING AND THE ACTUAL INTENT, so they shouldn't feel like any bad way because they're simply reading it wrong.

E90M3 > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 14:32

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You really don’t get it do you? You don’t get to decide how people react and perceive you. There are two sides to every coin and you’re only seeing your own, and because you always double down no one is going to change their perspective. It’s all about nuances when it comes to communication and you’re   missing it.

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > E90M3 04/20/2019 at 14:37

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So what do you suggest I do? Like specifics because I don't know what to do. Clearly everything I've tried doesn't work. People still make fun of me, talk shit and avoid me and won't let me do certain things and yeah. I'm just tired of explaining myself when people get me all wrong. 

E90M3 > HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute 04/20/2019 at 14:42

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First, I would be less defensive. Second, if everyone is saying the same thing, you could ask as to why they see it the way they do. If someone says you’re doing something and you actually mean something else you just explain what you’re trying to do.

I've made a couple parody posts, but they're usually obvious or I've explained the joke. 

HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute > E90M3 04/20/2019 at 14:51

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“Second, if everyone is saying the same thing, you could ask as to why they see it the way they do. If someone says you’re doing something and you actually mean something else you just explain what you’re trying to do.”

Oh boy. You have no idea how many times I've done exactly this and get either nothing or just more harassment. And that's precisely what gets me worked up.